My boyfriend sent me the cutest/funniest texts yesterday about going natural and ironically yesterday one of my male followers on twitter decided that I'm doing the most with celebrating my natural hair.

To me though, it is a celebration. After being masked behind relaxers and straight hair for years, I think we (women of color) finally have something to be proud of and that's being comfortable in our OWN skin. Looking the way God intended us too. We are finally regaining our own identity and for that I see all the reason to celebrate.
However, considering most naturals are pretty much obsessed with anything involving natural hair, natural products and natural lifestyles, I'm sure we can sometimes be a tad overwhelming to our mate or opposite sex. Even if going natural isn't a whole lifestyle change for you as it is for others, could you stay with someone or be around a person who didn't care for your hair or didn't share your enthusiasm? Or is that Petty? Please share your thoughts.
-Cee
I think going natural is a positive lifestyle change. Black women are finally celebrating who we are & of course some weak black men are gonna be intimidated by that. The guy I'm w. now loves my hair even though I am a little obsessive. I think any real, mature man will love to play in his woman's hair opposed to her saying "don't touch my hair,I just got it done."
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